The Bra Street Rambler

What is boomeranging you might ask? Think of a person who throws a boomerang. The boomerang goes flying from their hand in some opposite direction, the person puts out their hand and then just like that, the boomerang comes right back to them.  Boomeranging is when someone ghosts you, or otherwise walks out of your life under less than pleasant circumstances, throwing you away so to speak, only to come back later expecting you back in their lives as though nothing has happened.  This is something that can occur between friends, between a person and someone they were dating, or even between two individuals in a long term relationship.  More often than not, it happens with little to no thought on anyone’s part as all is quickly forgiven and forgotten, again and again.  It is something I believe people should be aware of so that they are better able to recognize it when it is happening to them. Not so that they can get angry with the individual doi...

Hello Bros and Bras! I do apologize for my lack of post last week, I was in the thick of my last few days of NaNoWriMo and am happy to say that I've succeeded in accomplishing my 50,000 word count in 30 days. What does this mean for you wonderful people? It means that that particular distraction in my life has ended for the year and that your Rambler has returned. Now, let us move on from that and attend to this week’s post, shall we? “At your absolute best, you still won't be good enough for the wrong person. At your worst, you'll still be worth it to the right person.” ―Karen Salmansohn We all experience moments in our lives when someone we care about makes a choice to walk out of our life. Often, this occurrence is followed by feelings of sadness and inadequacy as we repeatedly ask ourselves what we did wrong, why we weren’t good enough. We seek understanding where none is offered. We seek closure when there is none to be found. While this can be very u...